It sounds like a SIP scanner was able to make calls via your OBi.
Neither your OBi ATA nor your Grandstream phone are considered a PBX. The individual you dealt with at PhonePower is not quite correct. (Although the OBi does have some basic PBX-like features.)
Let us run some tests to try to figure out what caused the problem. If you are using DMZ or port forwarding, disable it. Hopefully you have or have access to a Windows computer. Download the utility from
http://www.dslreports.com/forum/remark,22292023 and run it from a command prompt in the following fashion:
stun stun.ekiga.net1) Let us know what type of NAT you are using, as indicated by the utility above.
2) If you used DMZ or port forwarding, let us know the specifics. (i.e. which ports were forwarded?)
3) Please paste your X_InboundCallRoute for both SP1 Service and SP2 Service so that we can see it.
4) Please change each SP's X_UserAgentPort to a random number between 20000 and 65535. This is not a permanent solution, but it will make it more difficult for the scanners to find you.
5) Let us know what router(s) you use.